Resource Library

The following resources are starting points for some of the most commonly asked questions regarding LGBTQ+ identity and allyship. This list is not comprehensive, but instead serves as a starting point for being an ally. Are we missing something? Have more questions? Send us an email at nextgen@mtnskyumc.org and we'll talk more!

Gender Identity

The following resources cover topics related to various gender identities and related subjects (i.e., transgender, non-binary, two spirit, genderqueer, pronouns, etc...):

Pronouns

What Are Pronouns? (mypronouns.org).

Gender-Neutral Pronouns 101 (them Magazine).

They/Them Pronouns- How do I remember to use them? (Phoenix Animations on YouTube).

What do you do when someone doesn't use any pronouns? (PFLAG).

A brief history of singular 'they' (OED).

Understanding Gender Identity

A Guide to Being an Ally to Transgender and Nonbinary Youth (The Trevor Project).

Understanding the Transgender Community (Human Rights Campaign).

Fact Sheet: Non-Binary Gender Identities (APA Division 44)

Gender Unicorn

Trans 101- The Basics (Minus18 on YouTube).

Check out the whole series at and download the written guide at trans101.org.au

Two Spirit/Indigenous Resources
Our Pride: Honoring and Recognizing Our Two Spirit Past and Present (ReWire).

What Does "Two-Spirit" Mean? (them Magazine).

Indigenizing Love: A Toolkit for Native Youth to Build Inclusion (Western States Center).

LGBTQ+ Allyship & Understanding

The following resources are related to the broader LGBTQ+ community to help inform allyship and a better understanding of those in the LGBTQ+ community.

Terminology

LGBTQ+ Glossary (It Gets Better Project)

Understanding the Intersex Community (HRC)

Guides for Effective Allyship

guide to being a straight ally (PFLAG)

Being an Ally to LGBT People (Youth Engaged 4 Change)

How to Support Bisexual Youth (The Trevor Project)

Supporting Black LGBTQ Youth Mental Health (The Trevor Project)

Welcoming & Affirming (Book; edited by Leigh Finke)

Intersex for Allies (Intersex Human Rights Australia)

Resources for Youth & Young People

Coming Out: A Handbook for LGBTQ Young People (The Trevor Project)